By Mary Frances McCarthy
Herald Staff Writer
(From the issue of 12/25/03)
If young people in Manassas continue to be so generous, stores in
Manassas might need to start ordering more colorful construction paper.
Following the example set by Pennington School in November, a group of
sixth- and seventh-grade students at All Saints School recently completed a
quarter-mile paper chain to brighten the life of a little boy few of them
have met.
Selling links for 25 cents each, the 85 students raised more than $1,000
to help defray medical costs for Grant Adkins, a seven-year-old who was
diagnosed with T-cell lymphoma earlier this year.
The daughter of Grant’s teacher, [first name] Garizone, is a student in
one of Rob Tessier’s religion class. On Grant’s seventh birthday in
November, Tessier’s sixth- and seventh-grade classes sent him handmade
birthday cards.
A few weeks ago, the students in Tessier’s classes read an article in the
Potomac News and Manassas Journal Messenger about Pennington School
selling paper links to raise money and decorating Grant’s house with the
chain. After reading the article the students at All Saints wanted to do the
same thing.
Jessie Barbar, one of the All Saints students who helped organize the
fund drive, said she wanted to help Adkins because he is a "really spunky
little kid. He doesn’t let anything get him down."
Students raised money doing odd jobs and asking friends and neighbors for
donations. Alex Johnson said her family donated the money they would have
spent on Christmas presents.
When one student donated $40, Tessier asked how she raised the money. It
was the money she earned babysitting. "I was amazed they were really giving
from their own pockets," said Tessier. "I have been so impressed with the
charity displayed by my religion students."
Instead of simply raising an obscure amount of money, Tessier said the
links provide a good visual for the students to see their progress and
achievement. Students wrote notes on the links, sending good wishes for
health and a Merry Christmas to Adkins.
Links from the paper chains are on display in the schools and at Manassas
Baptist Church, where Grant’s family are members.
"We’ve had an absolutely tremendous support group from this community,"
said Jane Adkins, Grant’s mother. "It would have been much more difficult if
we had not received their support."
One year ago, Grant was an average six-year-old. He loved playing soccer
and T-ball, reading and playing computer games. On April 1, he was diagnosed
with T-cell lymphoma, a form of childhood non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma.
When Grant was diagnosed, "I was absolutely devastated. I didn’t think
anything like this would happen in my family."
Jane and her husband, Bill Huff, are grateful for the emotional and
monetary support they have received. Grant’s medical expenses are
exorbitant, and not fully covered by insurance. Reneé DiDuro, the mother of
friends of Grant and his brother Philip, has acted as a liaison between the
schools that want to help Grant and his family. She established the William
Grant Adkins Fund at BB&T Bank, where the money raised so far has been
deposited.
Besides having to worry about money, Grant’s family has to be sure that
everyone entering their home is healthy, and if a family member is sick,
they have to protect Grant the best that they can. Jane explained that if
one of his sisters gets a fever, they get Tylenol. However, if Grant gets a
fever, he goes to the hospital. It has been hard for Jane to try to tell her
son not to hug and kiss his little sister when she gets sick. How can you
ask a loving child not to be affectionate?
Grant has 17 more months of chemotherapy to endure. "At times I’m sure it
will be difficult," Jane said, "but I hope the worst has passed."
Jane said that it has been absolutely necessary in her situation to not
lose her sense of humor. She said, "You cannot dwell on ‘Why my kid, why God
not someone else?’" She emphasized looking for the good that can come from
every situation. "And we have seen the good come out in others," she said.
Grant has received phone calls from people across the country who have
heard that he is sick and want to offer their support and prayers.
When asked what he thought about so many kids at area schools wanting to
help him out, Grant simply stated with an angelic smile, "I like it."