By Irene Lagan
Herald Staff Writer
(From the issue of 11/27/03)
When Thelma Billy moved to the Washington area nine years ago, she began
making friends among the homeless. One of her first friends was Lawrence,
whom she met in Lafayette Park as she was heading home for the evening.
Lawrence was picking his dinner out of a trash can.
"He was eating chicken bones," Billy said. "I told him I’d come back."
The next day, Billy returned to Lafayette Square to bring Lawrence a hot
meal. Billy returned regularly, and within a short time was preparing hot
meals at her home in Fairfax for hundreds of homeless in the District.
At first Billy said her husband George was concerned for her safety.
However, he soon began leaving her with extra money to purchase groceries
for the homeless. When Lawrence was found frozen to death, Billy began
distributing blankets whenever she could afford them. In a few short years,
Billy’s service to the poor has grown exponentially.
"They all know me," Billy said. "They even know my car."
Known among the homeless as "Mama," Billy regularly delivers hot meals to
an average of 200 people on Wednesday afternoons. On Thanksgiving, Christmas
and Easter, the numbers multiply.
With the help of St. Leo parishioners, Robinson High School students,
Paul VI Catholic High School students and the Knights of Columbus Diamond
Council, Billy and her husband George prepared home-cooked meals for nearly
1,000 people last week. More than 80 volunteers helped deliver countless
turkeys, chicken, stuffing, gravy, potatoes, beans and dessert to a host of
homeless people downtown.
Billy, a native of the Philippines, lives in Fairfax with her husband
George and her two children, Elizabeth, 18, and George, 13.
"I have been very blessed in my own life," Billy said. "In my country I
was very poor, Now I have plenty, and lots of friends. This is a way to
share the blessing." On some occasions, Billy has taken in homeless who
cannot care for themselves. Recently, she said, a blind man from Ethiopia
who lived with the Billys for five years had to go into a nursing home. Up
until several months ago, the Billys paid rent for several people who were
transitioning out of a shelter.
"He needed professional care," Billy said. "So we found a nursing home
for him and he is being taken care of."
Like Mother Teresa, Billy’s role model, her service to the poor in the
area has not been without criticism or controversy. Several years ago, she
was arrested and jailed for distributing food without a license. By the time
her husband came to bail her out, the story made the local news. As a
result, Billy received letters of apology from former President Bill Clinton
and other government officials, along with a much-needed new oven from
Channel 4.
In addition, the story brought Billy’s work to the attention of Food for
Others, the Food Bank and Knights of Columbus and countless individuals in
the community looking for way to serve others. Although Billy never accepts
money, donations of food, clothing and gifts for the poor pour in from a
variety of sources. The Park Department of Fairfax donated 15 turkeys for
Thanksgiving, and the Safeway near the Billy’s home donates day-old bread
and cakes from their bakery regularly.
In addition to plastic-ware, plates and food, Billy said many people in
the community have begun dropping off blankets, sleeping bags and winter
clothing.
"I always get what I need," Billy said. "God provides when I run out."
Two women recently contributed 1,400 Christmas gifts for the homeless
while another family dropped off personal care items in brown bags to
distribute along with meals.
When Billy’s oven broke down on Friday, several volunteered to cook
stuffing and heat food in their own homes. Now, she said, she is hoping for
another new oven, her fifth since she began cooking for the homeless.
Teenagers have also begun to donate service hours to help Billy around
the holidays. With the supervision of a few mothers and Thelma, groups of
teens prepared vegetables, buttered bread, washed dishes and wrapped plastic
utensils in napkins on Friday. When George Billy arrived home from work last
Friday, he was greeted by teenagers from Robinson High School, Paul VI and
St. Leo’s confirmation classes.
"It’s great when the kids are here to help," Billy said. "They are a joy
to have around."
On Saturday, many returned to distribute food. Many will be back to help
again the week before Christmas.
Jane Elfring, a religion teacher at Paul VI, said helping Billy feed the
homeless has become very popular among her students.
"Last year we had 10 kids come out to help. This year we have more than
40," she said.
Juniors, seniors and freshman enjoy the day. One junior who wished to
remain anonymous said, "I am trying to give back some of what God has given
me."