Herald Staff Report
(From the issue of 3/17/05)
John Patrick "Jack" Sullivan, a member of St. Agnes Parish in Arlington,
lector, usher, eucharistic minister, altar server, Knight of Columbus,
Hibernian, Arimathean, hospital volunteer, and godfather or sponsor to
countless Catholics, died March 10, at age 74.
Sullivan was born Sept. 26, 1930, in the "Irish Harlem" area of New York
City. He graduated high school from All Saints School in 1945, and two years
later joined the Air Force.
In 1952, he answered a recruitment notice for Washington D.C. police
officers and was sworn in on Nov. 1 of that year.
In 1956, Sullivan married Patricia Cahill at St. Matthew Cathedral in
Washington. They raised two sons, Michael and Patrick.
Sullivan retired from the police department in 1973 and began working for
the federal government’s Department of the Interior until his retirement in
1988.
In a 2002 interview with the Arlington Catholic HERALD, Sullivan
advised his fellow retirees to, "Get out there and start sharing with
people. It’s amazing how you’ll get back more than you give."
His "retirement" was anything but restful as he volunteered in several
capacities. While helping at a Knights of Columbus Christmas party he
overheard people talking about volunteer opportunities at Arlington
Hospital. He signed up and worked in the emergency room for more than a
dozen years.
"I love to interact with people," Sullivan said. "When someone comes in
[the emergency room], who really needs some help, not physical, I mean when
they don’t know what’s going on, I enjoy trying to help. I know how it is
when I go into a place and someone treats you like, ‘Go take a number.’ I
try to be understanding and sympathetic."
In 1989, he became active with the Arimatheans, a Catholic lay group
which assists with funerals at Ft. Myer. He served as administrator,
overseeing the men and women who assist the Catholic chaplains at funeral
Masses for military personnel and their dependents.
Sullivan became a caregiver to Msgr. Thomas P. Scannell after he moved
into a nursing facility. He would run errands and visit the monsignor daily.
Sullivan’s funeral Mass was celebrated March 14 by Father John Kelly,
former parochial vicar at St. Agnes, with seven other priests concelebrating. They
included: St. Agnes Pastor Father Lee Roos; Parochial Vicar Father
Christopher Pollard; Msgr. John T. Cilinski; former Pastor Father James. R.
Gould; Father Daniel Mode; Father Paul Gaggawala; and Msgr. Joseph Goudreau
of the Military Archdiocese.
In his homily, Father Kelly said Sullivan was "a man of family and a man
of faith.
"He trusted in God and never complained," Father Kelly said, adding that
Sullivan accepted suffering while he asked God for courage.
Sullivan had a tremendous devotion to Our Lady, the rosary and the
Chaplet of Divine Mercy, according to Father Kelly.
"The world was a beautiful place with him in it and it will be a little
less beautiful without him in it," said Paul C. Fischer, a family friend for
the past 14 years. "He was a good, good friend," Fischer said. "What a great
example. I’ve lost a wonderful friend."
Father Kelly referred to Sullivan as being a father to Fischer. Although
he jokes that he was not officially adopted by the Sullivans, he was
"accepted into the fold, and they had me over for every holiday except
Christmas.
"A guest in his home was Christ in his home," Father Kelly said, speaking
of his many visits to the Sullivan home.
"God rest your good and faithful soul," Father Kelly said.
Sullivan is survived by his wife, Patricia; sons, Michael of Lorton and
Patrick of Arlington; sisters, Rita O’Shea of Florida and Teresa "Dolly"
Sullivan of Georgia.
Memorial contributions may be made in his name to Community Hospice of
Virginia, 520 N. Washington St., Falls Church, Va. 22046 or the Lombardi
Cancer Research Center c/o Lombardi Clinic Research Building, Room E-501,
3970 Reservoir Rd., NW, Washington, D.C. 20057.