By Angela E. Pometto
Herald Staff Writer
(From the issue of 6/9/05)
"I thank God for allowing me to enter into the gift and mystery of the
priesthood for the people of Arlington, so we can journey to holiness
together," said Deacon James Searby, who is eagerly awaiting his June 11
ordination.
Searby was born in New York City, N.Y., on June 21, 1972, to Robert and
Donna Searby. He is the oldest of seven children. He attended Bishop
O’Connell High School in Arlington for three years but graduated from North
Ridge Prep School in Chicago. He earned his bachelor’s degree in history
from the University of Dallas in 1995.
After college, he worked in marketing and public relations for many
different organizations, including a year with the Ringling Brothers and
Barnum and Bailey Circus. While based in New York, he toured the Northeast
with the circus. He lived on the road for that year and found it "exciting,
sensational and interesting," but it was during this time that he heard the
call.
While Searby had many good jobs, he never felt truly fulfilled. After
going to confession in Portland, Maine, the confessor asked if he’d ever
considered becoming a priest. That started his path to discernment.
It was like someone had turned a light on in his world, he said.
"Everything made sense in that light."
After a year of prayer, he enrolled at St. Charles Borromeo Seminary in
Pennsylvania. During his four years there, he had pastoral assignments
during the summers, from working with a high school, to a home for the
elderly, to parish work. He was ordained a deacon on June 5, 2004.
Searby has heard stories of families who are not so supportive of the
priestly vocation, but throughout the discernment process, Searby’s family
has encouraged him.
"I have parents who love each other and teach me how to love," he said,
adding that his parents, members of St. John Parish in McLean, taught him
and his siblings that both vocations — to marriage and to religious life —
are equally acceptable. "They encouraged me to listen to the call of God in
my life."
Searby is looking forward to many aspects of becoming a priest,
especially celebrating the Mass and bringing God’s mercy to people through
confession.
He compares himself to the apostles who were told to "put out into the
deep" and who must have questioned whether they would make it.
"It’s a great challenge and great adventure, and we pray we can live up
to it," he said.
Searby feels he has a natural talent for explaining the faith to people.
"I have an enthusiasm for living, truth and faith, and I thank Him for
it," Searby said.