By Angela Pometto
Herald Staff Writer
(From the issue of 12/08/05)
With many women dressed in maternity evening gowns and men in tuxedos
accessorized with burp cloths, supporters of the Tepeyac Family Center
gathered at the Dulles Hilton in Herndon last Saturday.
The second annual Divine Mercy Care Gala raised $140,000 for Tepeyac
Family Center in Fairfax. According to Julie O’Donnell, gala chairwoman,
more than 350 people attended the gala, showing an increase from last year.
"I hope we’ll just keep getting bigger and bigger," she said.
Earlier this year, Dr. John Bruchalski, founder of Tepeyac, was diagnosed
with pancreatitis and was out on sick leave for three months. According to
Dr. Marie Anderson, the three remaining doctors all pitched in during his
absence.
The doctors knew he needed to recover, and "we knew he would," she said.
"When you get very sick you have to thank a lot of people," Bruchalski
said, adding that he was most grateful to everyone who prayed for him. It
was evident — even to his doctor at Johns Hopkins Hospital — that people
were praying for him making for a speedy recovery. "Please give yourselves a
round of applause for saving my life."
Tepeyac also has a new executive director. Bob Laird, who is "on loan"
from the diocese for a year, said he is thrilled to help the center. He
congratulated Dr. Daniel Fisk and Anderson for running a business and
delivering babies for so long.
"I’m not walking into something that needed a lot of help, just a little
leadership," he said.
Laird knew Bruchalski when he first envisioned Tepeyac and understood
right away that the Tepeyac model "makes no sense in the secular world,"
Laird said. But it is filled with "the healing power of Jesus Christ."
From the first day Laird walked into Tepeyac, he took control of the
office and has been working to improve the administration, said Anderson.
Several awards were given out during last Saturday’s program. The Our
Lady of Guadalupe Award was renamed the Susan M. Torres Award. Bruchalski
greatly admired what Susan and Jason Torres did this summer to bring their
child to term.
"She was a mother who made the ultimate sacrifice to save the life of her
child," he said. Even though the child died soon after the delivery,
Bruchalski said that baby Susan affected her family, the hospital staff and
all those who heard the story.
"Her life was not without meaning," he said.
The award recognizes a patient who has especially lived the gospel of
life. This year’s recipients were Catherine and Peter Scheibmeir. On her
seventh pregnancy, Catherine used a "secular" physician. Because of a long
history of complicated pregnancies, this physician told her she couldn’t
leave the hospital without having her tubes tied.
After the experience, she returned to Tepeyac to have her tubes untied.
She and her husband are now expecting their eighth child.
"She thought she would find peace when she had her tubes tied," said
Anderson, who told the couple’s story. "We find peace when we follow God’s
plan."
"It’s the dignity of the human person we want to return to medicine,"
Bruchalski said. "This is how we can reclaim the culture for the Lord."
One of the center’s goals for the next year is to start networking with
other centers throughout the nation that are following the same mission as
Tepeyac.
"This is going to change the face of medicine," Bruchalski said.
"We preach pro-life, but this is an organization that can step up and do
it," said Therese Bermpohl, interim director of the Office of Family Life.
"It’s one thing to say we’re pro-life instead of actually being out there
providing services and taking care of women."
Joni Abdalla and her family traveled from Indianapolis for the gala. She
was a Tepeyac patient while she lived in Northern Virginia and still
supports the work.
"This is the answer to the culture of death," she said.
Lynn Bateman, a member of St. Lawrence Parish in Alexandria, came to the
gala to support the cause of Tepeyac. When she was a young girl, she had a
baby out of wedlock, and she said, back "in those days" there were no
organizations to help her through it. She feels very empathetic to women in
a similar situation.
"Having a baby is worth it. It always pays off," she said.
"We leave our sonogram appointment saying how much we love our doctors,"
said Lori Gehl, an expectant mother from St. Leo the Great Parish in
Fairfax.
"On more than one occasion I have called Dr. Bruchalski, Father
Bruchalski," said Matt Norton, a member of St. Mary of the Mills Parish in
Laurel, Md. His wife, Mary, agreed that she looks to "Dr. B" as a spiritual
guide as well as a medical doctor.