By Angela E. Pometto
Herald Staff Writer
(From the issue of 5/26/05)
On May 7, the day before Mother’s Day, Susan Torres, a
member of St. Rita Parish in Alexandria, was rushed to Arlington Hospital
for what was originally believed to be a brain aneurism. It was later
discovered that she has melanoma cancer in her brain. The doctors would have
taken her off life support and proclaimed her dead after the first
inspection were she not pregnant. Now, they are keeping Susan alive for the
sake of the new life within her.
And that life is fighting to survive. On May 18, a
sonogram showed a normal baby, kicking and moving about in its mother’s
womb.
“We have hope,” said Karen Torres, Susan’s
mother-in-law.
Susan is in her 16th week of pregnancy, and the goal is
to deliver at 25 weeks, the bare minimum for a premature baby to survive.
“Every indication from the doctors is that the fight
for Susan is already over,” said Jason Torres, Susan’s husband. “Now, we’re
fighting for the little one.”
Susan has suffered a significant amount of brain
damage. She is kept on a respirator and all of her vital signs are closely
monitored. Medicines that would help regulate Susan’s body temperature and
blood pressure aren’t being used for fear that they would harm the baby.
“The entire body is the clothing of the soul, and the
heart is the anchor,” said Karen, a member of All Saints Parish in Manassas.
“Her heart has never stopped. Susan is fighting for her baby.”
Karen believes the family need a Lazarus-like miracle
to get through this. While the family, of course, hopes to have both the
mother and child survive, the odds are stacked highly against them.
Karen has researched information on pregnant mothers
who had either brain damage or cancer, but did not find any with both. If
Susan had just one of these defects, the odds of her surviving would still
be bad, but since she has both, the chances are miniscule.
“It’s so hard to watch someone suffer,” said Karen.
Jason said that he has received letters from people
from Maine to California who have somehow found about the situation and
offered prayers for the family. He is grateful to these faceless supporters
who are praying with him for his wife and his child.
“Please, every person who can spare a prayer, pray for
Susan and her baby,” Karen entreated.
The Torres families are long-time members of the
Arlington Diocese. Jason is an alumnus of Seton School. Susan converted to
Catholicism nearly five years ago after meeting Jason at the University of
Dallas. Jason and Susan were married three years ago and have one son,
Peter, who is nearly 2 years old.
According to Jason, Peter knows that something is
wrong. He continues to ask where his mother is but is taking it as well as
can be expected.
Jason has found much support from the parish and
community.
“I have almost as many priests as I have doctors, and
they’re more useful,” said Jason. Father Paul Scalia from St. Rita Parish
and Father Jerry Wooton from St. Leo the Great Parish in Fairfax, where
Jason is a member of the Knights of Columbus, have been especially helpful
to the family. They have visited the hospital and anointed Susan several
times.
“The only important part is that there’s a little life
involved,” he said. “Even in the face of hopelessness that little life is
worth fighting for. So we’re going to fight.”
To donate
funds to help the family cover medical expenses, send check to Susan M.
Torres Fund, P.O. Box 34105, Washington, D.C., 20043-0105. A new Website has
been established for news and financial support of Susan. It can be found at
www.susantorresfund.org.