
Love without Cost
By Henrietta Gomes
HERALD Staff Writer
(From the Issue of 3/8/07)
Braving the blistering cold and gusty winds last Sunday morning,
a modern day St. Francis handed out chains with blessed miraculous
medals at Franklin Square Park at 13th and K Streets N.W. in Washington,
proclaiming, “Let this be a reminder to you that this is not
your home. Heaven is your home.” After whistling to get the
attention of the city’s homeless, who stood in line to get chili
and bread, Kellie Ross, clad in a simple white dress and fleece, yelled,
“If you want to get your feet washed come see me.”
In an almost surreal sight, 50 volunteers joined Ross, the co-founder
of the Missionaries of Our Lady of Divine Mercy, an outreach group
from Holy Trinity Church in Bristow, to enter the park in the heart
of the nation’s capital where many homeless dwell, and see Christ
in them and be Christ to them. “We’re here to change one
soul at a time,” said Ross about the ministry that started over
a year ago.
The outreach to the homeless is not the typical sandwich distribution
of big cities. These volunteers not only set up a large buffet style
table with hot food, but they come bearing foot washing kits. They
sit on little stools and humbly wash the feet of the homeless and
then clothe them with brand new socks. The air is filled with a sense
of reverence as two guitarists lead praise and worship songs. The
music was just the starting point for the prayerful tone of Sunday’s
picnic, where nearly 150 men and some women were fed. After having
their fill, and while some still waited to get their feet washed,
several of the park residents joined the volunteers for a rosary procession
around the park. Touting pictures of Divine Mercy and Our Lady of
Guadalupe, the volunteers attracted more people for the procession
as they wound their way through the park. The prayers were interspersed
with Ross ebulliently calling upon others to join.
Many of the homeless recognized Ross and her volunteers and were happy
to participate. “I’m just a fool for Jesus,” said
Ross, noting that she strives to make the poor and homeless comfortable.
“I do whatever it takes to bring a soul to Christ.”
Regarding their mission, Ross said, “We are a little grain of
sand. We’re feeding them with mercy and we try to develop a
relationship with them. We’re allowing God to use us.”
She explained, “We’re called to be servants to others.
To come here is a ministerial calling to serve. Everything is a prayer.”
She emphasized the importance of just being with the poor and listening
to them. Ross, who is a nurse by profession, noted that many of them
have not taken off their shoes in months, and encourages them to have
their feet washed and disinfected.
The ministry is a profound integration of deep prayer and radical
action and Ross makes it clear that her passion for social justice
does not supersede her fervent love and longing for Jesus in the Blessed
Sacrament. In fact, Ross spends time in adoration each day for strength
and sustenance in her ministry and encourages other members of the
group to do the same. “We want to change the world through prayer,”
said Ross, who noted that there are two people who pray 24 hours a
day for the intentions of the ministry. Work without prayers is empty,
she said.
The image of Divine Mercy is the impetus behind the ministry, which
stemmed from a Divine Mercy Prayer Group at Holy Trinity Parish. After
reading the Diary of St. Faustina, to whom Jesus appeared in the 1930s
in Poland, Ross felt compelled to spread the devotion of God’s
fathomless mercy. The prayer group started with the help of Father
Jack Fullen, a retired priest of the Archdiocese of Baltimore, who
serves at Holy Trinity.
“It’s all a miracle of God. God is glorifying Himself
through this ministry,” said Ross, who takes no credit for the
work. “I have nothing in me but wretchedness, but God takes
this wretchedness and uses it.” The image of Divine Mercy as
appeared to St. Faustina is universal, explained Ross. It teaches
people to trust in Jesus. She spoke about receiving God’s mercy
in the sacraments, and she added, “Mercy is a verb. We pray,
we listen and we act with faith and trust.”
The message of mercy transfigured into action has drawn many to the
ministry of the missionaries. Theresa Fortman, 19, a student at George
Mason University, conceded that she initially thought it might be
“weird” to wash the feet of the homeless. However, she
has found that washing their feet “is absolutely beautiful.”
Fortman, who has worked with the ministry for a year said, “This
is an amazing way to serve Jesus. I can see how beautiful the homeless
are and this just means the world to me.”
As she cheerfully scrubbed the foot of a resident in the park, Emi
Curi said with a smile, “This is what I’m called to do.”
Curi, a parishioner of Holy Trinity Church, came Sunday with her two
teenage sons. “I love the poor and the homeless. They preach
to me,” she said. “I go to daily Mass, but I get my greatest
homilies here. They teach me about humility, abandonment, surrender
and trust.”
The most significant aspect of the group’s charism is that all
their work is done with great love. “I feel in my heart that
love transcends every affliction in this world,” said Matthew
Burrell, shelter coordinator for SERVE, (Securing Emergency Resources
through Volunteer Efforts), who came with his wife and son to support
the missionaries and counsel those living in the park. “It’s
the love of Christ,” said Burrell, who is not Catholic, but
sees God’s mercy.
“It’s amazing what happens,” said Ross about the
service in the park. “There’s so much holiness, joy, love
and fellowship.”
Aside from their work in the park, the missionaries have a free clothing
store in Manassas called the House of Mercy. Run entirely by volunteers,
the overtly Catholic store provides free clothing to the poor and
homeless. Images of the Blessed Mother and Divine Mercy are plastered
on the walls and the Eternal World Television Network plays in the
background. Instead of price tags, all items have prayer cards attached
to them.
Although the clothing is used, only the best is distributed, according
to Susan Loving, communications director. The shoes and socks, however,
are brand new. There is a sense of dignity in giving out new shoes,
said Loving. The poor and homeless in the area are given vouchers
from nearby shelters, including SERVE, which enables them to pick
out five items from the store each month.
All who come to volunteer at the House of Mercy are required to spend
at least 15 minutes of prayer during their shift. “If you can’t
get into the right frame of mind you can’t serve the poor,”
said Loving. The main goal is “to project Christ. It’s
not about the food and the clothes. It’s about giving them hope
and providing human contact.”
The ministry transcends the temporal needs of the poor and homeless.
“There’s a huge hunger for God,” said Ross. The
goal is to “Bring people hope. We’re trying to do corporeal
works of mercy.” In essence, she said their ministry strives
to be “love without cost.” That love continues every Wednesday
during Lent, when the missionaries host Supper with Mercy, a free
dinner for the poor in the Manassas area. “We will not rest
until we toil for our neighbors, said Ross. The group also invites
anyone to learn about the Catholic Church and ask questions.
Evangelizing and serving the poor was not always a way of life for
Ross, who recalled her days living “in great sin.” She
said, “I was living an immoral life. There was emptiness. I
sought to be consoled and the more emptiness I found.” After
a conversion back to the faith she was baptized in, Ross found herself
yearning to continue to learn more about the Church. “If you
give your heart to Jesus your heart will never be the same,”
she said. Over a year ago, Ross made a radical decision to give away
all her fashionable clothing and jewelry and now dresses simply. “God
was calling me out of darkness and into the light.”
As the foot washers put away their kits, and the other volunteers
packed up the dishes and tables, Father Fullen reminded the crowds
that the missionaries will return to the park in three weeks on March
25. He also reminded them of something more significant: “This
is not our final home.” Father Fullen, co-founder of the mostly
lay organization, said, “We are all homeless. Heaven is our
home. Our real home is heaven. Don’t be sad here. Do not get
discouraged.”
When going through trials and difficulties it is hard to remember
that God has a plan, said Ross. “Yes, there are still hardships
and temptations that assail us, but He will not leave our side,”
she said with fervor. “That’s where ‘Jesus I trust
in You’ comes in. It’s all about total surrender to Jesus.
Our goal is to serve, hand by hand, knee by knee, soul by soul.”
For more information or to donate new shoes or slightly worn clothing
contact the House of Mercy at 703/659-1636.
Henrietta Gomes can be reached at hgomes@catholicherald.com.
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