I wrote a column a few weeks ago about the Vaticans new policy
on handling priestly pedophilia. Given the recent onslaught of media attention brought on
by cases in Boston and elsewhere, I thought it was time to address the current issue more
directly.
First of all, I have to say that it makes me sick, sick, sick to think about
what has happened in our Church. A Catholic priest is a representative of Christ. For even
one of these representatives to use that power and trust to violate a child is a travesty
beyond comprehension. The damage such a man does to the child, to his parish, and
to the whole of the Church is overwhelming. And that Church representatives would
knowingly reassign such offenders to another parish is, at the very least, puzzling to me.
What could they have been thinking? Didnt they see the risk? Known pedophiles should
not ever be placed in any kind of ministry where they will be in
contact with children. They should be punished, isolated and probably defrocked. Why any
Church official ever did otherwise is beyond me.
Of course, the medias presentation has been anything but balanced. Many argue
that this scandal has been caused by the Churchs "unreasonable" demand of
priestly celibacy. I suspect that, for many, this was their agenda all along, and the
scandal serves as a convenient vehicle to promote that agenda.
But their argument makes very little sense. First of all, virtually all churches
struggle with this issue. One Anglican diocese in Canada is on the verge of bankruptcy
over defending lawsuits brought on by decades of clerical sexual abuse. Their clergy, like
virtually all non-Catholic clergy, are allowed to marry. School districts constantly erupt
in controversy over these types of issues. Personally, throughout my entire childhood, I
never encountered a single priest who fell under the slightest suspicion of improper
sexual conduct with children. But I can think of at least three teachers at the public
schools I attended who were later found to be engaging in such inappropriate conduct. And,
as I recall, they were all married.
More important is the issue of judging credibility in these cases. Sometimes, as in the
Geoghan case in Boston, the facts are clear. He abused young boys, and he was repeatedly
reassigned. That was wrong.
But in other cases, the facts are not so clear. Sometimes a case boils down to the word
of a priest against the word of an alleged victim, and diocesan officials are left to sort
out the facts. Sometimes both the priest and the victim seem credible. Holy-seeming men
can sometimes hide shameful secrets. But savvy people children and adults -- have
also learned that sexual abuse charges are the ultimate revenge against a man they dislike
or a Church they resent.
Memories "recovered" by adults in therapy are notoriously unreliable. The
late Cardinal Joseph Bernardin was sued for $10 million by a former seminarian, Stephen
Cook, who "remembered" under hypnosis that the cardinal had molested him years
earlier. Cook later recanted and apologized to Cardinal Bernardin.
How would you like to be in the position of having to discern the truth in situations
like these? The stakes either way are far too high. To mistakenly convict a
priest is to destroy his reputation and his ministry forever. To mistakenly
acquit him would be to release a potentially dangerous man back into the company of
children.
The most important point to remember is that priests are still priests, and the Church
is still the Church. The vast, vast majority of Catholic priests are good, holy men who
are dedicated to spreading the Gospel. This scandal and the flurry of media
attention it has engendered has placed them under a very painful, unjustifiable
cloud of suspicion. Many say theyre afraid to wear their collars in public, afraid
of being seen as child molesters. Of course, we have Father Geoghan to thank for that. But
the media has played a role as well.
Finally, we need to remember that the Church is still the Church founded by Christ, and
still holds and protects His truths. It is run by fallible humans, yes, and sometimes
they, like humans everywhere, do deplorable things. But remember that those deplorable
things are contrary to the teachings of the Church. Our Church holds to an
unchanging standard of respect for human dignity Christs standard. Certain
priests have violated that standard, and will be held accountable in this life and
in the next.
One friend of mine theorized that maybe the Holy Spirit is allowing these things to
happen in order to purify Christs Church. Maybe God decided that the time had come
to rid His Church His Bride -- once and for all of these men who use their free
will and their holy office for their own purposes. Maybe this is another step toward the
"new springtime" John Paul II has been promising us.
We just may have to put up with a little more winter first.
Bonacci is a frequent lecturer on chastity.