In what does true greatness consist? Some might answer by pointing to
political power and leadership; others might point to fame and celebrity;
still others might point to wealth. No doubt, these attributes grab most of
the headlines today (and perhaps in any age). But are these same attributes
at the heart of what makes someone great? For every George Washington or
Abraham Lincoln, there is a Hitler or a Stalin. Some who have wealth are
generous donors to charitable causes, but there are others who hold on to
their riches. The celebrity lifestyle seems to be founded on how much
attention one can draw to oneself and the satisfaction of one's ego. Is this
really the model of greatness we should imitate?
The problem is not new; in fact, Jesus and His disciples had to face the
issue squarely. This week's Gospel shows us Jesus speaking of His own
approaching death and resurrection: "The Son of Man is to be handed over to
men and they will kill him, and three days after his death the Son of Man
will rise." Yet in the face of this tragic announcement, the Lord's
disciples argued over who among them was the greatest. Instead of offering
Christ some measure of comfort and support, the disciples fought about who
was most important, who held the most prestige. The poverty of their
thoughts and words was revealed when Jesus asked them, "What were you
arguing about on the way?" and they remained silent. It was the silence of
shame; they had no defense. So long as they thought Jesus was not listening,
the argument about who was the greatest seemed fair enough, but when that
argument had to be stated in the presence of Jesus, it was seen in all its
unworthiness.
At this point, Jesus took a very solemn and serious step. The Gospel
tells us that "he sat down" and called the Twelve over to Him. When a rabbi
was teaching as a rabbi, when he was making a definitive pronouncement, he
sat to teach. Jesus deliberately assumed the position of a rabbi teaching
his pupils before He spoke. And then He told them, in solemn terms, "If
anyone wishes to first, he shall be the last of all and the servant of all."
In other words, true greatness in God's eyes and in His Kingdom consists in
the willingness to serve, to be counted last rather than first, to give
rather than take. It was not that Jesus abolished ambition. Instead, He
commanded us to seek a new ambition: in place of the ambition to have things
done for us, Our Lord substituted the ambition to do things for others.
Some may object that this is impossibly idealistic, that Jesus could not
have really meant what He said. But is it so far beyond our capacities to
give generously of ourselves in service to others? Is this not what husbands
and wives, mothers and fathers, are called to do and pledge to do in their
marriages? Is this not what teachers do in our schools, and volunteer
catechists do in our parish religious education programs? Is this not what
young men do when they answer the call to priesthood or young women upon
hearing the call to the religious life? Is this not what so many of our
parish social organization do--place themselves at the service of others,
particularly the poor and less fortunate? In short, Jesus' prescription for
greatness, far from being idealistic, is the most realistic prescription of
all. If we never placed ourselves at the service of one another, life itself
would lose its beauty, and we would remain trapped in our own solitude,
loneliness and egoism.
Part of the reason for Our Lord's coming as man was to set us free from
the terrible isolation of selfishness. By His death and resurrection, Jesus
has indeed elevated us to a new life--a life meant to be lived for others, a
life that will bear the mark of true greatness to the extent that we are
willing to give of ourselves in loving service to God and to neighbor. In
the end, we will be judged, not by the standard of worldly success, but by
the standard of Gospel success. And this standard is really very simple:
when we lose our life, we find it; when we make a gift of our self to
others, we discover who we are; when we are willing to become last, we end
up being first.