
Contraceptives Diminish Marital Union
By Fr. William P. Saunders
Herald Columnist
(From the issue of 7/24/03)
Third in a six-part series on
contraception.
Recall that in two previous issues, we have examined our belief
concerning the Sacrament of Marriage and the beautiful expression of marital
love, which is both unitive and procreative. Both dimensions are
intrinsically good and inherent to the act of marriage. Consequently, in
marital love, one cannot separate the unitive from the procreative
dimension.
For this reason, therefore, Pope Paul VI in his encyclical Humanae
Vitae stated, "Each and every marriage act must remain open to the
transmission of life (No.11). The Holy Father continued, "This particular
doctrine, expounded on numerous occasions by the Magisterium, is based on
the inseparable connection, established by God, which man on his own
initiative may not break, between the unitive significance and the
procreative significance which are both inherent to the marriage pact" (Humanae
Vitae, No.12).
With the introduction of a contraceptive means (artificial or not) to the
marital act, the procreative dimension is purposefully suppressed and
ignored. The unitive dimension, therefore, is separated from the
procreative. Just as a forced act of physical love by one spouse upon the
other violates the unitive dimension of marital love, the impairment of the
capacity to transmit human life violates the procreative dimension. Here
note that contraception involves an impairment or a suppression of one
inherent dimension of an action as God has designed it. Essentially, God has
designed marital love to be both unitive and procreative; to suppress or to
violate either one contradicts the design of God.
Nevertheless, we have witnessed the proliferation of the use of
artificial birth control in particular. As Pope John Paul II, as well as
Pope Paul VI, have repeatedly warned, what has consequently evolved in
society is a contraceptive mentality, the removal of conjugal love from the
Sacrament of Marriage, and in many cases — especially outside the context of
marriage-- the reduction of conjugal love to simply a sex act without
genuine love. In Evangelium Vitae, Pope John Paul II lamented about
the effects of contraception: "Sexuality too is depersonalized and
exploited: from being the sign, place, and language of love, that is, of the
gift of self and acceptance of another, in all the other's richness as a
person, it increasingly becomes the occasion and instrument for
self-assertion and the selfish satisfaction of personal desires and
instincts. Thus, the original import of human sexuality is distorted and
falsified, and the two meanings, unitive and procreative, inherent in the
very nature of the conjugal act, are artificially separated: in this way,
the marriage union is betrayed and its fruitfulness is subjected to the
caprice of the couple. Procreation then becomes the 'enemy' to be avoided in
sexual activity: if it is welcomed this is only because it expresses a
desire, or indeed the intention, to have a child 'at all costs,' and not
because it signifies the complete acceptance of the other and therefore an
openness to the richness of life which the child represents" ( No.23).
Here we must pause to examine another dimension of the problem with some
forms of artificial birth control. Most artificial birth control pills today
are such that they have a "double-barrel" effect. On one hand, they serve as
a contraceptive in suppressing ovulation; on the other hand, if ovulation
occurs and conception takes place "by accident," they also make the lining
of the uterus hostile to implantation, thereby expelling the conceived life.
Remember that once conception occurs, an unique, precious individual has
been created who has the right to life. Consequently, these pills are really
abortifacients, having the same effect as the IUD (intrauterine device).
Actually, this "double barrel" effect is the sad selling point for the drug
RU486, commonly called "the morning after pill."
Moreover, we must also consider the possible side effects of these pills
to the health of the woman. In examining the Physician's Desk Reference
for various oral contraceptives available, the small-print list of possible
health complications include, to name a few, myocardial infarction,
thrombosis, cerebrovascular disorders, birth defects, and various forms of
cancer (breast, cervical, ovarian, and uterine). Tragically, many doctors do
not inform the woman of these health risks when prescribing these drugs.
Since each individual has an obligation for maintaining his health, any drug
which consistently changes the normal functioning of the body and which
carries these risks would be morally objectionable.
So what is a couple who has serious issues facing their marriage, such as
a medical problem or economic constrictions, to do? The Church has always
taught that a couple must act as responsible parents: "The couple must
fulfill their role as cooperators of God's creative love with
responsibility: they must respect the divine providence of God, consider
their own good and the good of their children, born and yet to be born,
weigh their own situation and needs on the spiritual and material levels,
and look to the good of family, society, and Church" (Gaudium et Spes,
No.50). A husband and wife, with a vision of being responsible parents, must
decide if now is the time to have a child. There may be serious reasons for
postponing a pregnancy — even indefinitely — because of health, financial
burdens, or other serious reason.
However, one must be careful not to distort what is a "serious" reason.
Pope John Paul II stated, "The decision about the number of children and the
sacrifices to be made for them must not be taken only with a view to adding
comfort and preserving a peaceful existence. Reflecting upon this matter
before God, with the graces drawn from the Sacrament, and guided by the
teaching of the Church, parents will remind themselves that it is certainly
less serious to deny their children certain comforts or material advantages
than to deprive them of the presence of brothers and sisters who could help
them to grow in humanity and to realize the beauty of life at all ages and
in all its variety" (1979).
If a couple thinks serious reasons do indeed exist for postponing a
pregnancy, the Church teaches that a couple may take advantage of "the
natural cycles of the reproductive system" (Humanae Vitae, No.16). We
know that a woman can only conceive a child during the period of ovulation.
Therefore, a couple may resort to expressing their love only when they are
in the infertile phases of their cycle. This method of regulating birth is
called Natural Family Planning, a safe and effective means which is morally
acceptable and which preserves the covenant love of marriage. This topic
will be addressed in next week's issue.
Fr. Saunders is pastor of Our Lady of Hope Parish in Potomac Falls and a
professor of catechetics and theology at Notre Dame Graduate School in
Alexandria.
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