Sitting on a bench outside the Missionhurst provincial house in
Arlington, Father John Van de Paer waved to car after car driving past to wish
him a happy 100th birthday Nov. 29. More than 50 cars decked out with
streamers, signs and balloons were led by an Arlington County Police cruiser
with another police SUV ending the parade with obligatory lights and sirens.
“There are so many cars,” he said. “You certainly have to be 100
to expect anything like this. I’ve never seen so many people being so nice to
me for this 100th birthday.”
Father Van de Paer said birthdays never meant much to him; it was
not a custom in his family.
“I never thought I would live this long and maybe, maybe it’s
because of the people,” he said with a big smile and blue eyes sparkling. “I
lived that long because I liked the people so much that I want to be with them
all the time and now they all come to me.”
And come they did, some from Pennsylvania, some Ohio and many
more from the community the Missionhurst priests — the Congregation of the
Immaculate Heart of Mary — have built in North Arlington just off Glebe Road.
Father Van de Paer was born in Antwerp, Belgium, Nov. 29, 1920.
He entered the novitiate Sept. 8, 1940, and was ordained in 1947. The bulk of
his priestly service, 43 years, was working with the African American community
in south Philadelphia at St. Charles Borromeo Church.
“I’ve known Father since I was 14 years old,” said Doris
Gunter-Rucker, a parishioner from St. Charles who drove down for his birthday
parade and sat next to the priest for the festivities.
Four-year-old Indigo Sanders and her parents came from just up
the street. She presented Father Van de Paer with signs to wish him a happy
birthday. Indigo often sees the centenarian during her morning walks when she
stops to chat with him.
“We teach the people to give one another all their needs, so they
can grow their children to be really part of the community, whichever that
community may be,” Father Van de Paer said. “This is a beautiful place to call
a community.
“So, being 100 years old, maybe I should invite everyone to come
here and feel perfectly at home, regardless of who they are, regardless of
where they are from, regardless of what they do, because if they have problems
they should be able to come here and get help not just from a priest, but from
anybody. We have to care for everybody,” he said.
“That is really what you call a missionary.”
Augherton, acting editor and general manager, can be
reached at aaugherton@catholicherald.com.