More than 100 fresh "recruits" gathered inside St. Benedict
Hall in Arlington Feb. 2 for the second session of Marriage
Boot Camp, a new faith formation series sponsored by St.
Charles Borromeo Church. Unlike what the title suggests,
there is no drill sergeant demanding endless push-ups from
young couples on their way to the altar. But just as the
Marine Corps boot camp prepares young Marines to face flying
bullets, this faith formation series gives participants the
tools they need to face one of life's biggest challenges -
marriage.
"I want to invite everyone to this," said Angelus Virata, St.
Charles director of adult faith formation. "No matter what
your relationship status is - single, dating, engaged,
already married, young or old - there is something in this
boot camp for everyone." She said that the talks are
especially good for single adults because, "It will give them
a guide to follow once they do wish to enter a relationship."
Over the course of 14 Monday night sessions, this "boot camp"
not only covers the spiritual side of courtship and marriage,
but also delves into post-marriage finances and even
parenting.
Mary Stanford from Christendom College kicked off the series
with the first of a three-part series on St. John Paul's
book, Theology of the Body. At the first talk,
Stanford guided participants through the first session and
shared reflections on the famous text interspersed with funny
personal antidotes.
"The Theology of the Body is first and foremost a way
to understand the human person," said Stanford.
Carolyn Fridley, a St. Charles parishioner, was grateful for
the opportunity to examine St. John Paul's famous work. "You
don't really get the chance to study the Theology of the
Body outside of a Catholic school setting, so this is a
great opportunity," said Fridley.
The idea for marriage boot camp came when Father Donald
Planty was head chaplain at Christendom College in Front
Royal.
"I developed Marriage Boot Camp as a response to a pastoral
need," said Father Planty. "I knew the majority of
Christendom College students would likely marry and have a
family, and the college curriculum only offered a few hours
of lectures to freshmen on the sacrament of marriage and on
the Commandments regarding family life. When I came to St.
Charles, where the majority of my parishioners are single
young adults, I thought it would be good to offer Marriage
Boot Camp again."
"Given the signs of the times, good formation regarding
marriage is crucial: It's something we have to get right and
live right-that is, well," he said.
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Find out more:
Email Angelus Virata at angelus.virata@gmail.com or
703-527-5500 x13.