Pete Pistolesi’s grandson Nicholas was
safe and sound at college. But the morning of Jan. 9, Pistolesi received a call
from someone who sounded just like him. “Nicholas” said he had gotten into a
car accident in North Carolina, broken his nose and now was sitting in jail.
Could they pay the $7,500 bond to get him out?
“(My wife and I) looked at each other
and said, ‘OK, we can do that,’ ” said Pistolesi, a
parishioner of St. Michael Church in Annandale. Nicholas recently told his
grandfather he was restoring an old car, and Pistolesi assumed that was the car.
“When he said, ‘This is Nicolas’ — right
there it grabs your heartstrings,” said Pistolesi. “(I thought) oh my goodness,
we’ve got to help this kid out.”
Pistolesi was transferred to “Nicholas’
lawyer,” who instructed him how to send the money in cash to a certain address.
Later that day, Pistolesi went to FedEx and sent the money.
“We went ahead and did what this person
told us to do. The red flags were there but I didn’t notice them. We bought
into it hook, line and sinker,” said Pistolesi. “I was walking around all day
long proud I was helping my grandson.”
But Pistolesi had become a victim of one
of the many scammers targeting seniors. The Federal Trade Commission lists a
whole host of popular telephone and computer scams for consumers to look out
for. Some scammers impersonate the IRS and demand money. Some claim to be from
the lottery and ask supposed winners to pay taxes upfront before receiving
their winnings. The calls or emails often look legitimate and many people fall
prey.
“(Scammers) have become extremely
sophisticated,” said Melissa Smarr, who works on the Fairfax County Silver
Shield campaign to educate seniors about fraud. “Some people are losing their
life savings over it.” According to the Senate Special Committee on Aging,
elderly Americans lose about $3 billion a year to scammers. Though Fairfax
County doesn’t track those numbers, “one detective, for the cases he was
working, (said scammers had stolen) over a million dollars,” said Smarr.
Other criminals scam people in person.
“The police call them woodchucks,” said Smarr. “(Fairfax County) is known for
being a very rich county compared to other parts of Virginia, so they actually
target the elderly (here) who live alone, who may have dementia or Alzheimer’s.
(They) basically say, ‘Hey, there’s a tree that looks like it’s about to fall,
we’ll remove it for $1,000.’ Then they graduate to roof, chimney and attic work
(to gain access to the house.) In some cases, they’ll steal checks and other
goods to get quick money.”
The Silver Shield website advises
seniors to seek second opinions and check the refences of people asking for
their money. If possible, pay via credit card. “We try to encourage homeowners (that)
they don’t have to answer the door,” said Smarr. “If it’s a call, they can let
it go to voicemail. If it’s scam-related, they won’t leave a voicemail.”
If someone believes they have been
scammed out of money, they should alert the police. “Don’t be embarrassed.
We're not going to blame or judge you — any of us can get scammed,” said Smarr.
However, sometimes the crimes are difficult to prosecute because the criminals
don’t live in the United States. “If it’s a big enough case, we’ll send it to
the FBI and Secret Service. We have been working with the U.S. Postal Service
Inspection Service to help consumers retrieve as much money as they can,” said
Smarr. “On the woodchuck side, the police are taking these criminals to court,
but that does take time.”
Children, grandchildren and friends of
seniors can help as well. “Just be aware of your elderly neighbors, especially
during times of natural disaster,” said Smarr. “If you're at home and someone
is coming to their door and there’s vehicles you don’t recognize — look out for
each other.”
On the day Pistolesi was scammed, he
finished praying his evening rosary as another call came in. This time, it was
from the real Nicholas, who they quickly realized hadn’t been in an accident at
all. “I said, ‘Nicholas, I got to hang up, I think we’ve just been scammed,’ ”
said Pistolesi. Though the FedEx store where he had sent the money was closed,
he found a number for FedEx and called. “They said, ‘Don’t worry it’s coming
back. It takes five or six days but you will get it back it,’ ” said Pistolesi.
He also called the police to let them
know what happened. He hoped they could alert the police in North Carolina, who
could then go to the place where the money would arrive to arrest the scammers.
“He told me, ‘These guys are smart. The very next day they (call FedEx and) change
the address and nobody knows where it's going,’ ” said Pistolesi.
Pistolesi is very grateful he got all
his money back. “I’m 87, my wife is 80. To lose that kind of money, I think I
would’ve died of a heart attack,” he said. Pistolesi believes that prayer is
ultimately what saved him from losing thousands. “Why did (my grandson) call at
9 o'clock?” asked Pistolesi. “The Blessed Mother was looking out for us.”