Last year, I wrote an article on
promposals — the fun, over-the-top gestures seniors employ to ask one another
to prom. What I received in response was a delightful email from Catholic Herald
reader Tom Moeller, a former parishioner of St. Mary of the Immaculate
Conception Church in Fredericksburg who now lives in Washington. He wrote:
In
light of your story on the “promposals” at Paul VI and Ireton, I thought you
might find it interesting to learn about a different approach to prom proposals
at another Catholic high school, Aquin High School, a small Catholic high
school located in Freeport, Ill. Aquin was attended by my parents, siblings and
nephews. My parents were in the first class (1930) to go all the way through
the school, from freshmen to senior year, and it was their class that began the
prom tradition that every class since has voted to continue. My dad was one of
the orphans referred to in the information below.
When hard times fell on Moeller’s
grandmother, his father was taken in by St. Vincent's Orphanage in Freeport, Ill.,
which was run by the Diocese of Rockford and staffed by a Franciscan order of
nuns. “My dad loved St. Vincent’s and credited it with giving him the spiritual
and educational foundation for his future life,” said Moeller. “When the kids
graduated from St. Vincent's, they entered Aquin High School across the street,
a new diocesan-run school staffed by Dominican nuns.” Moeller’s father was the
class valedictorian.
He then passed along information on the junior/senior
prom from the Aquin website:
Aquin
has a unique tradition of drawing for their date that goes back to the 1920s
when the school wanted to make sure the many orphans who attended the school
would have the opportunity to go to the dance. Today, the students vote whether
or not they want to continue the tradition of Prom Draw. Each year they
unanimously vote to continue the tradition.
As
there needs to be enough boys to match with girls, students from the sophomore
class may be included with permission of the students' parents. Although, there
are times when a boy or a girl will have two dates if a balance cannot be
established.
Girls
form groups prior to the prom draw to decide how they are going to dress for
the prom draw. It is customary for girls to design a brown paper grocery bag to
disguise themselves. It is fun and adds to the suspense. The girls gather in
the gymnasium where parents and family members can watch the prom draw. It is
customary for the girls to prepare a gift bag for the boy who will draw her
name. The gift is presented when the boy asks her to prom.
The young men draw their dates’
names in the library. Then they head to gymnasium where the girls are waiting. The
girls, now undisguised, watch the guys perform skits before asking their date
to officially go to prom with them. The boys also fill out dance cards for
their dates — talk about a throwback!
Here are some prom draw videos from
last school year, as listed on the school website.
The Catholic Herald newsroom
thought this was a pretty cool idea. Any takers, high schools?
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